There is a difference between an orientation and practicing our orientation. Nobody says that homosexuality is a sin. I am born with an orientation to have sex which other women other then my wife. Is it OK for me to practice my orientation? God does not HATE homosexuality or any orientation any more than He hates heterosexuality or heterosexuals. He does hate the fact that we live in a fallen world and we do not behave righteously within His boundaries. But God, not you, determines what is sin. Any sex outside of marriage between a man and woman is a sin according to OUR CREATOR! Who cares what modern dying dysfunctional passing culture has to say? The Nazis thought that murdering Jews is OK. Nowadays we say it is OK to murder unwanted young children, before birth, or even after birth in Belgium. Fornication, adultery, sex with animals, lust, anger, gossip, hate (which is murder), are all sins according to God who has spoken authoritatively and clearly through Jesus and the Bible. So lets forget about defining sin. God has already done so. So accept that you are a sinner and stop trying to play God! Stop trying to make up your own rules as you go along. Have you ever even created an ant? What do you know? God loves all sinners but hates sin. Humble yourself before your Creator, ask Him for forgiveness for your own sinfulness and arrogance and thank Him that Jesus died for sinners like me and you!