When I was a new believer in Jamaica in the early 1970’s I was discipled primarily by Robert Levy, a young businessman, and by Jeff Imbach, a young missionary from Canada. I was later discipled by famous Christian leaders in Switzerland, England, and the USA; but it was primarily Robert and Jeff, and other missionaries who taught at Jamaica Bible College, who taught me the basic teachings of the faith and gave me a foundation which my later mentors were able to build on.
God started a movement among the young businessmen and professionals in Kingston, Jamaica. Initially there were only Robert, his brother Phillip, Richard Hanna, and a few years later God added me to the group. Then a miracle happened within about 18 months of my conversion, our group grew to nearly 200 new converts involved in about 20 small group Bible studies. Jeff had studied how powerful small group dynamics were, and he helped us to put these principles into practice.
Why did we have so many small groups instead of simply meeting in a large room in a club, hotel, or church? Because one of the only ways that we can practice “community” is in the context of small groups. At that time the idea of community and small groups was a new idea in traditional churches. Our small groups ranged from a weekly lunch in the executive dining room of my law firm, and breakfast meetings at a Country Club, to meetings with mechanics at a car repair shop, and meetings at a construction site for the construction workers, and numerous home Bible Studies. By necessity most of the small group leaders were new believers, but we would meet weekly with Jeff for ongoing training and help in answering all the questions we were getting in the small groups.
What is community? Community is primarily a small group of people loving “one another” in such a deep and intimate way that makes it almost impossible to do in a large group. The immediate family is one of the best examples of “community” in all societies, but God wants to see this intimacy and love also in our “spiritual family”. It is only within a small group that we can have real intimacy which enables us to practice the “one-another commandments” which we see practiced in the early church which did not have church buildings, but met in homes.
Below is a list of the 59 “One Anothers” of the New Testament:
1. “…Be at peace with each other.” (Mark 9:50)
2. “…Wash one another’s feet.” (John 13:14)
3. “…Love one another…” (John 13:34)
4. “…Love one another…” (John 13:34)
5. “…Love one another…” (John 13:35)
6. “…Love one another…” (John 15:12)
7. “…Love one another” (John 15:17)
8. “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love…” (Romans 12:10)
9. “…Honor one another above yourselves. (Romans 12:10)
10. “Live in harmony with one another…” (Romans 12:16)
11. “…Love one another…” (Romans 13:8)
12. “…Stop passing judgment on one another.” (Romans 14:13)
13. “Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you…” (Romans 15:7)
14. “…Instruct one another.” (Romans 15:14)
15. “Greet one another with a holy kiss…” (Romans 16:16)
16. “…When you come together to eat, wait for each other.” (I Cor. 11:33)
17. “…Have equal concern for each other.” (I Corinthians 12:25)
18. “…Greet one another with a holy kiss.” (I Corinthians 16:20)
19. “Greet one another with a holy kiss.” (II Corinthians 13:12)
20. “…Serve one another in love.” (Galatians 5:13)
21. “If you keep on biting and devouring each other…you will be destroyed by each other.”
(Galatians 5:15)
22. “Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.” (Galatians 5:26)
23. “Carry each other’s burdens…” (Galatians 6:2)
24. “…Be patient, bearing with one another in love.” (Ephesians 4:2)
25. “Be kind and compassionate to one another…” (Ephesians 4:32)
26. “…Forgiving each other…” (Ephesians 4:32)
27. “Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs.” (Ephesians 5:19)
28. “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” (Ephesians 5:21)
29. “…In humility consider others better than yourselves.” (Philippians 2:3)
30. “Do not lie to each other…” (Colossians 3:9)
31. “Bear with each other…” (Colossians 3:13)
32. “…Forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another.” (Colossians 3:13)
33. “Teach…[one another]” (Colossians 3:16)
34. “…Admonish one another (Colossians 3:16)
35. “…Make your love increase and overflow for each other.” (I Thessalonians 3:12)
36. “…Love each other.” (I Thessalonians 4:9)
37. “…Encourage each other…”(I Thessalonians 4:18)
38. “…Encourage each other…” I Thessalonians 5:11)
39. “…Build each other up…” (I Thessalonians 5:11)
40. “Encourage one another daily…” Hebrews 3:13)
41. “…Spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” (Hebrews 10:24)
42. “…Encourage one another.” (Hebrews 10:25)
43. “…Do not slander one another.” (James 4:11)
44. “Don’t grumble against each other…” (James 5:9)
45. “Confess your sins to each other…” (James 5:16)
46. “…Pray for each other.” (James 5:16)
47. “…Love one another deeply, from the heart.” (I Peter 3:8)
48. “…Live in harmony with one another…” (I Peter 3:8)
49. “…Love each other deeply…” (I Peter 4:8)
50. “Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.” (I Peter 4:9)
51. “Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others…” (I Peter 4:10)
52. “…Clothe yourselves with humility toward one another…”(I Peter 5:5)
53. “Greet one another with a kiss of love.” (I Peter 5:14)
54. “…Love one another.” (I John 3:11)
55. “…Love one another.” (I John 3:23)
56. “…Love one another.” (I John 4:7)
57. “…Love one another.” (I John 4:11)
58. “…Love one another.” (I John 4:12)
59. “…Love one another.” (II John 5)
